It's so easy to give in to our human-ness: our bodies our weak, our emotions are unstable, our hearts are torn. It's so much easier to wallow in our hurt and self-pity!
Yes, we are allowed to be sad, disappointed, hurt, and heart-broken, but that state is never supposed to last! God openly tells us that feeling sorry for ourselves and our situation is not how we are meant to live. We are called to give God our fractured hearts and ACCEPT HIS HEALING. That means letting go; letting go and trusting that God knows what He's doing in our lives.